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Marj Flemming
Founder, Chattanooga Women’s Leadership Institute & Founder, LaunchPoint Leadership
Ah, the word ‘leadership.’ If we believe the job of a leader is to set up others (followers or peers) for success, then leadership must mean guidance, influence, and inspiration. It must mean taking people further than they could or would have gone without your assistance.
To me, becoming a leader is synonymous with becoming yourself. Until you have done some serious introspection to understand yourself, including strengths and weaknesses, others will not be willing to go where you want to go. They will not feel as though they can trust you to have their best interests in mind. They will not believe you are an authentic person. They will not believe you are a great leader.
I’m frequently asked if I believe effective leaders are born or made – and my answer is that they are both. It merely takes time for leadership traits as well as the capacity to lead to evolve.
Both positional and transformational leaders emerge with the same characteristics – energy, enthusiasm, and emotional stability, along with intentional decision-making, respect for individuals, trust, and innovation.
I believe leadership is heart-rending because as leaders we have an obligation to be constantly developing ourselves while developing others and enabling them to act.